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Shawndellah

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Best Way to Bear Witness?
« on: December 01, 2011, 01:56:47 AM »
I am curious as to how people bear witness to others about Christianity? Often I try to do it but then I stop. I feel like I'll come across as preachy or trying to cram it down someone's throat.

What is the best way to bear witness to others?

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Re: Best Way to Bear Witness?
« Reply #1 on: December 01, 2011, 04:06:50 AM »
By example or experience is how I find the best way to bear witness. For example, if someone is going through a particular type of struggle, I might use my own experience and tell them how God pulled me through. I use a tender and encouraging tone. I don't slam my beliefs down people's throats, but give them reason to want to know more about God and salvation. People tend to listen this way instead of feeling cornered or intimidated.

Most people don't like a lecture or being told what to do. Witnessing should draw people in and not push them away. Witnessing should be done in a way that a person feels built up and not put down. They should not be put to shame, but should find hope and encouragement in your words.

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« Reply #2 on: December 08, 2011, 05:37:23 AM »
I just think it is by example, then slowly transition them into listening to what you have to say. Remember, "they will know you are my disciples by the love you show to one another." It is important to show. Action speak louder than words and with all the fakers out there it is even harder.

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« Reply #3 on: December 08, 2011, 08:56:35 AM »
By example or experience is how I find the best way to bear witness. For example, if someone is going through a particular type of struggle, I might use my own experience and tell them how God pulled me through. I use a tender and encouraging tone. I don't slam my beliefs down people's throats, but give them reason to want to know more about God and salvation. People tend to listen this way instead of feeling cornered or intimidated.

Most people don't like a lecture or being told what to do. Witnessing should draw people in and not push them away. Witnessing should be done in a way that a person feels built up and not put down. They should not be put to shame, but should find hope and encouragement in your words.

Very well said and I agree. It works when you base it from your own experience that way people will be inspired since they saw the change in you or how it helped or made you as a person. But even if it’s not from your own experience but you believe in the good it will bring or you bear witness on how the Lord have changed and inspired other people’s lives, you can speak of these also. Just always be guided by our Lord Jesus Christ.

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« Reply #4 on: December 09, 2011, 05:14:20 AM »
I think leading by example is a good way. I've had people tell me they could tell I was a Christian without me even saying anything. I think if you let your light shine, people will see it. That's kind of a way to bear witness without having to give a speech to anyone.

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« Reply #5 on: December 17, 2011, 08:10:03 PM »
Definitely by example, and to ease into your Christian beliefs. Trust me if you live a good Christian life, people will ask you about your faith. I do not believe in confronting people and beating them over the head with what I believe it makes them run away instead of come toward Jesus.

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« Reply #6 on: January 31, 2012, 03:20:40 AM »
I read somewhere there were two ways- You can tell people about Christ, or you can act as one who believes in Jesus Christ, by being kind, honest, respectful, etc. Why not both ways I say! But I am kinda shy, so the latter works better for me.

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« Reply #7 on: February 12, 2012, 09:13:02 AM »
I just think it is by example, then slowly transition them into listening to what you have to say. Remember, "they will know you are my disciples by the love you show to one another." It is important to show. Action speak louder than words and with all the fakers out there it is even harder.

I could not have put this better myself. After all, Jesus showed us the way to lead by example in the first place. If you lead a good life and are content, people will want to know how you do it, whereas if you go around Bible bashing and declaiming in the streets, they're more likely to pass by on the other side. Reveal your faith through your actions, and others will follow.

R. Paradon

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« Reply #8 on: February 13, 2012, 08:15:34 AM »
I could not have put this better myself. After all, Jesus showed us the way to lead by example in the first place. If you lead a good life and are content, people will want to know how you do it, whereas if you go around Bible bashing and declaiming in the streets, they're more likely to pass by on the other side. Reveal your faith through your actions, and others will follow.

I agree with both of you.  Although I am not a Christian per se, no matter what your faith is there is no reason or purpose of Bible Bashing.  No where have I ever read in the Bible of a necessary quota given for conversion.  But some evangelists seem to thing that there is more merit in numbers.  It is simple do you want a person to become Christian by giving them hope or by scaring them to death!

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« Reply #9 on: March 02, 2012, 09:32:20 PM »
I agree that for the majority of Christians the best way for them to bear witness is by their actions and deeds.  There are some people who have the gift of being able to speak to people about God. Some like Billy Graham and other evangelists, but the ones I'm talking about are those who can 'sense' when somebody will be receptive and instinctively know what to say and how to say it.

We all have our gifts, if this isn't your gift then don't worry. Show it in other ways.

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« Reply #10 on: March 03, 2012, 08:37:30 PM »
I also agree that it is by example that we best bear witness. I never try to push my beliefs on anyone, I will talk gently and if I am rejected I will stop. Mostly I want people to see the light of Christ in me and want that for themselves.

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« Reply #11 on: March 09, 2012, 10:52:43 AM »
And never fear nor be ashamed to talk about your faith, about Christ and of God. We have to admit that these are the topics most people don’t want to talk about or they refused to include in their talk or simply missed. But actually to simply tell someone, “God bless!”, “God speed!”, “Have a blessed day!” or passing an inspirational quote or sharing a story from the Bible could bring a good turn in their day.

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« Reply #12 on: March 12, 2012, 12:07:51 PM »
There are several ways to bear witness to others.  You don't need to be preachy.  It can be subtle.  One of the subtle ways that I bear witness is from my signature on all of my outgoing emails.  I always sign everyone of my emails by saying, Smile!  God loves you!  I really never thought about it until I got a few different comments from a few different people.  One person was a real estate lady who made a comment about it and how it always makes her smile when she sees it.  Another one was from a man that made a comment back to me saying that he is smiling and that he knows God does love him.  This is a subtle but effective way to bear witness.  Another way is just by your actions and what you say each and every day.  Be nice and courteous to others at all times and you are bearing witnessing to how God wants us to act and how He wants us to treat others.    Hope you all have a good day and remember to, Smile!  God loves you!

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« Reply #13 on: March 13, 2012, 04:14:54 AM »
One of the things I was taught to do was "Barbeque first". It is from a book about soul winning that I will have to try and remember. What the author was talking about was before you start trying to win someone to Christ, be a friend. Invite them over for a BBQ, get to know the person first. Many times people will come to you with their questions about Christ if your life is being a witness. Because we all have different personalities and different ministries, one person may be an "in your face" type person about God, and I believe God will lead you to those type of people who need that type of personality. If your personality is a quiet, meek one, you may not have to do much talking. You may have to do a lot of listening, but that listening can open the door for a person to get to know Christ, because if we are praying while a person is sharing with us, God will give us what to say to them if we are prayerful. What works for one person may not work for another.

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« Reply #14 on: March 13, 2012, 04:47:36 AM »
I am curious as to how people bear witness to others about Christianity? Often I try to do it but then I stop. I feel like I'll come across as preachy or trying to cram it down someone's throat.

What is the best way to bear witness to others?



The best is to give your testimony to others telling them Christ Jesus is alive in you. That he is love, all-merciful, kind, compassionate, full of wisdom, all-knowing, etc.
" Just say the word and my servant shall be healed." Matthew 8:8


 

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