One of the things I was taught to do was "Barbeque first". It is from a book about soul winning that I will have to try and remember. What the author was talking about was before you start trying to win someone to Christ, be a friend. Invite them over for a BBQ, get to know the person first. Many times people will come to you with their questions about Christ if your life is being a witness. Because we all have different personalities and different ministries, one person may be an "in your face" type person about God, and I believe God will lead you to those type of people who need that type of personality. If your personality is a quiet, meek one, you may not have to do much talking. You may have to do a lot of listening, but that listening can open the door for a person to get to know Christ, because if we are praying while a person is sharing with us, God will give us what to say to them if we are prayerful. What works for one person may not work for another.